ARE YOU HOLDING A GRUDGE?

Ask yourself the below questions;

1. Does this person get on your nerves?
2. Does this person annoy you, even when they are being kind to you?
3. Do you spend a lot of time thinking about this person?
4. Do you spend a lot of time thinking about things this person did to you?
5. Has any of your close friends spoken to you to forgive this person?
6. Do you spend too much time rehearsing what this person did to you?
7. Do you resent this person for what they did?

You need to understand that we are different. We are have our weaknesses. Patience must have her perfect work in order for us to understand others. Holding a grudge will hinder you in so many ways and waste your time. it challenges our patience and it somehow forfeits our blessings. If we cannot forgive others, we cannot pray effectively. And if we cannot pray effectively then how are we going to hear from God. We will miss our blessings

My dear, don't hold a grudge, let go of what that person did to you, move on and move up. Nothing just happens. Who knows it might be a blessing that whatever happened happened. 




Comments

  1. BirdSoul7 November 2013 at 03:02

    iv been holding a grudge for the past 3wix and beliv me the feeling was exhausting and very painful...i cried evry minute i found the privacy to. its torture beliv me...dont ever wanna feel that feeling again. I cud hav died for real...my heart was always heavy. But last nite i decided i hav to let go of this grudge and forgive and moving. I prayed about it and God gave me pis. I forgav her instantly after realising forging her doesnt necessarily mean i have to be close with her. i can continue loving her and being civil.
    I am so gr8ful i made that choice and prayed abt it cos today i feel much better. i am as light as a feather...no tears js smiles.

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