DESPERATE TO GET MARRIED

Women who hit a certain age and are desperate to get married. Could this be true?

I know a few people whose boyfriends broke up with them after about 6 months because they were already discussing and pushing marriage.

All these women are anywhere from late 20's to early 30's. I understand women have biological clocks and everything and there’s a stigma (especially in Africa) to women who are single past a certain age.

The problem is that if you push a guy to marry you, you are going to scare him off by trying to rush things too much. A guy may think that if you bring marriage that early, then you are desperate. 


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I personally think that there should be no set age for one to get married. However, as a Christian, I am all for courting for like say 6 months to a year then marriage. I mean why wait for 3 years to marry someone. Why wait that long? The bible encourages us to honor God with our bodies. I applaud all the young ladies who pursue purity. May God strengthen you and give you more grace as you wait upon God for your Adams.


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  1. Malebo4 October 2016 at 06:11

    I heard something recently that one needs to be spiritual mature before settle down because u will be able to hear from God and have a relationship with Him.love will come easily if spiritual mature.these other elements (age,finance) do not add much value

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