MY BAD FRIEND

I have come to realize that it doesn't matter how long people have been in your life but how true and how good they can love you just the way you are. The truth is friends will come and go into your life. It is what it is.
As you grow older like me (he he), you will be able to see the signs of a good friend and a bad friend. Don’t ignore the signs. You can tell if your friend is good or bad by their actions. Actions speak louder than words.  Its a traditional saying we all know!





ME N MR H
I’m pretty sure that we all have, in one way or the other had friends who were exhausting, destructive and toxic. I tell you the truth; it can be difficult to identify these people as some pretend for quite some time. BUT LIKE I SAID….DON ‘T IGNORE THE SIGNS.
SIGNS OF A BAD FRIEND/BAD FRIENDS
1.      Self-centered. It’s always about that person
2.      That person will put you down deliberately to hurt your feelings and make themselves feel or look better
3.      She/he will not support you no matter what. Instead they will cling to you and give you nothing in return
4.      Bad friends are not loyal, not trustworthy and they never tell you the truth. Guess what they are fond of doing…running to the next person to tell them the story of your life (Gossip).Avoid such people if you want to go somewhere in life. BIG TALKERS are not productive.
5.      They are jealous of you. Common now..you can always see when someone is jealous of you
6.      They are never there when things get tough
7.      They are not believers; they are negative and not inspired to achieve anything in life.

FRIENDSHIP IS IMPORTANT, WE ALL NEED PEOPLE THAT CAN IMPROVE OUR-LIVES…BUT BE CAREFUL WHEN YOU CHOOSE YOUR FRIENDS. ASK FOR WISDOM FROM GOD

Comments

  1. Anonymous12 March 2015 at 01:41

    I would say if if you encounter such a situation, pull a balancing act. Acknowledge the bad as the bad and the good for what they are. The bad will help you appreciate the good.

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  2. Malebo12 March 2015 at 12:38

    I think you need to understand all of your friends and their weakness and treat them accordingly. Nice piece

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