LOVE IS A BEAUTIFUL THING.
Searching for love these days can get you hurt. The bible says he who finds a wife finds favor with God.
Gents, be wise….People
are crazier than ever before and they don't know how to love or be loved
most of the times. You can really love someone and be taken for granted or
you can love someone and they make you a side chick or you can love someone and
be kicked to the curb, or you can choose to not love and be lonely and
bitter.
Love is one of
those things that you have to give in to if you ever expect to be happy in
this life. It starts from an individual. We must first understand that
love is of God and it’s one of the fruit of his Spirit. So, if you have
God in your life then you should love for real!
Be patient with the ones
you love. Don't abuse them or expect them to be perfect. Lately, I have
come to accept that we are different. I can have (4) sisters like I do and we
will all be different in so many ways.
Always look at yourself
and your own shortcomings when you love someone. That way, you can
always understand that we make mistakes, but true love understands and is
not short tempered.
So, to the lame man, such as I. Is love a feeling or a decision? In any sense, romantic or otherwise. I think we as a people have our own ideas of what love is or how it should be. Our duty to love has now become dependent on whether the next person relays what our idea of love is. If the next person does something right by us, we claim to love them, if they do the opposite, we claim not to love them. It then becomes conditional. 'is love a feeling or a decision'?
ReplyDeleteI always say, God is the only perfect love. We can't love Him the way He loves us. It then becomes our responsibility to love His creation, ourselves included. Simply put, your love for you and the next thing is an expression of your love for Him.
Thanks Silky, will follow you religiously now. There's a lot to be said, stories to be shared, voices to be heard. Keep on keeping on.
PS. Precious