MS. SILKY

Searching for love these days can get you hurt. The bible says he who finds a wife finds favor with God. Gents, be wise….People are crazier than ever before and they don't know how to love or be loved most of the times. You can really love someone and be taken for granted or you can love someone and they make you a side chick or you can love someone and be kicked to the curb, or you can choose to not love and be lonely and bitter. Love is one of those things that you have to give in to if you ever expect to be happy in this life. It starts from an individual. We must first understand that love is of God and it’s one of the fruit of his Spirit. So, if you have God in your life then you should love for real! Be patient with the ones you love. Don't abuse them or expect them to be perfect. Lately, I have come to accept that we are different. I can have (4) sisters like I do and we will all be different in so many ways. Always look at you...

Have you ever been so obsessed with something that you wanted until you went off the deep end to try to get it? Have you ever gone so far from your walk with God until you found yourself in the middle of something that you could not handle? Nervous breakdowns, emotional distresses, panic attacks and crazy phobias are all situations that can cause people to lose it! These come from over the top stressful situations and circumstances. And many Christians suffer with these types of distresses. Being obsessed with material things to the point that they will cheat or steal to get it. Or being so obsessed with the wrong person that they would destroy themselves before they would let them go. Being so stressed that they will use drugs or turn to alcohol to ease the pain. Or being so sexually obsessed that they would risk dying for a sexual partner. But didn't the bible say that God would put no more on us than we can bear? So, how doe...

The corporate world is brutal. One goes through challenges and makes a lot of mistakes. It can be very difficult especially if you are in a new environment where you don’t know anyone. Guess what, you are not alone. I remember when I started working ….man it was tough… At times I would rush to the toilets and cry myself out coz I felt misunderstood and mistreated. If you want to enjoy your work I advise you do the below: 1.       Always remember that God gave you this job 2.       Don’t overload  yourself as this will stress you 3.       Humble yourself and learn from your supervisors 4.       Focus on the end goal WORK DELIGINTLY If you work diligently, God will uplift you. Proverbs 10 verse 4 says that he becometh poor that dealeth with slack hand: but the hand of the diligent maketh rich. 

 At times I wake up and I feel so messed up and angry with life, with myself and how things are going. At times I feel like not living u know what mean... Growing up is not easy, but I thank God I am born again. I have decided to follow him and lean not on my own understanding. A very important gift from God is peace. Remember that the   bible says that God gives us peace that surpasses all understanding.   We often get caught up in crying over our problems that we tend to forget about Peace. We want to remember love, joy and all the good things that the Holy Spirit grants us. I realized that most of us struggle too much without peace in our lives.  What is Peace? It is basically the calmness we have in God. The confidence that he is in control and your present state is not your end. Peace is not just a feeling, but it's a state of mind. You get good sleep when there is peace. You don't struggl...

I hope I won't come across as a mean, selfish and weird person.  I will be honest...I have a strictly "NO SHARING CLOTHES POLICY". I want to believe that my parents played  major role to the birth of this policy. Growing up in a family of four beautiful ladies( me been the third) we were never in a thousand years allowed to borrow clothes from each other. Its either you have or you don't and wait for MAMA to buy for you. Again my mother is a clean freak, she would tell me that there are skin infections which are contagious. U know what I mean ....u borrow...u rock it without washing it...and walaaaa...Skin infection. I feel like in the same way lending money can get awkward and messy ( MANY ARE TIMES) so can borrowing clothes. I don't know.... I think this habit is common among women. I personally don't like it, don't do it and don't encourage it. Ladies I really wanna hear your comments on this!..

Precepts of men are not strong enough. You must learn God and learn to preach the gospel from him (he is our teacher and Shepard). I used to go to church and to tell you the truth I was not myself. A lot of Christians and are still trapped in that religious eggshell, where they go to church and they try to act holy because they do not understand what holiness means.  I didn't  get that too. What is the first thing that pops in your mind when I ask you what holiness is. Most of us think that holiness is been morally upright, been sinless and blameless. Then let me ask you something….what is Righteousness? You see God is distinct and sacred, there is no one like our God.. He is not sinful, he is above everything.  God’s nature is the expression of his holiness. It is beyond our compression ……it’s his perfection. Is there any human being like our God? Is there anyone so perfect like our God? Holiness is been set apart, been distinct and abiding in God. ...

Growing up as a child, I was chubby, dark and to be honest I cared less. It’s only afterwards when people started making comments about my physical appearance that I felt like I was not good enough. I struggled massively with my self-esteem over the years. I am so embarrassed to mention that even when I was in varsity I struggled so much. I knew then that I had a problem and had to do something really fast before I break down. There is a lot of pressure from the culture we live in now. At times we feel like we are not god enough because we are so busy looking at other people’s lives. It is so pathetic and embarrassing that I sometimes allow myself to wander by allowing myself and Satan to torment me and lie to me….maybe I’m giving Satan way too much credit. At times it’s really my mind….. Some of the lies I feed me. 1.        Telling me that I am not beautiful 2.       That I would never amount to anything 3.   ...